Hey guys, i'm back!! kinda tied up with tight schedule and stuff, so please be patient and bear with me for the in-activeness =p
What topic we shall discuss about today? let see.... how about friendship ^____^
It starts when a person meets another at somewhat coincided place at the same time... It starts with a simple yet meaningful "hi" or a sweet smile =) some friendship may stops there, everything dies off, but there are many that create a strong bond thereafter, so sweet and beautiful....
But how long can it last? People may ask, how long is consider as long enough? weeks? months? years? Is there any life-long friendship? There are many example of really really long term friendship... They support each other when they need someone to be there for them the most, offer a helping hand when they need help, a shoulder to lean against when they are down, a pair of ears to listen to their stories.... being the motivator to encourage each other to grow further....
However, things doesn't often be the way you want it to be.... What if one fine day the friendship turns sour? (which could be due to various reasons, but we are not discussing it here :p )
How can we cope with it? it is actually humans' nature to be comfort in their position now and dislike changes (to a certain extent, this may include any act that indicate reluctant for changes)..... there are many ways to deal with these changes...
The most important thing is to communicate... communication not only help to find out the root cause, but also provide an opportunity to solve the problems together, thus avoid any misunderstanding between all the parties involved... This would result in a better informed decision being made =)
If communicate doesn't work out the issue, well, it's time to move on.... Go out there explore the world, explore your interest, expand your horizon and you'll start to realise that your problem is just worth a peanut!! There's always new adventure, new opportunity and new challenges everyday... live life at its fullest and enjoy every second of your life!! stop being emo and act if like the world owed you as you are not hurting anybody but yourself and your loved ones.... Life is short, (yes it is... just face it!) and we cant afford to waste our time in this way.. It's time to wake up if you have not done so, and face the world!!
At the end, we will be meeting new friends everywhere... believe in yourself, do no harm to others, and others will believe in you =) the most important is to have confidence in yourself, treasure every relationship and there'll be no regrets~ Keep it simple and sweet *winks* ;)
♥♥xoxo,
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